By Andrew Shugyo Daijo Bonnici, Ph.D. · Copyright 2015 · All Rights Reserved
Buddha's life is not just about Buddha. It is also about you and me and the world we live in. One way to understand this intimate relationship between Buddha and ourselves is to speak about it through the metaphor of a nurturing and supportive embryonic environment.
When each of us was in our mother's womb we did not have a name, we were not yet a person, but we were all living and growing human beings. Before we were born we were embryos. We did not have to breathe or eat or want for anything, because everything was taken care of in our mother's body. As embryos our minds did not know words and our hearts did not know about wanting things or food. Our mind was in a beautiful Silence because we did not have to think about anything. Our hearts were in a beautiful Peace, because we did not want or desire anything. This was a special time of heart-not-wanting and a mind-not-knowing. We wanted nothing and we knew nothing. We felt a Peaceful Love and a Wise Silence that took care of everything.
Then one day we were born into the world and left our mother's womb. We started to breathe by ourselves and we needed food. When we began to want food and nice feelings in our body, our heart forgot about the Peace of not-wanting anything. When we began to think about how to make others give us food and make us feel good, our mind forgot about the Great Silence.
Shakyamuni Buddha was an embryo once too. He was a prince who got all that his heart wanted — and yet, as he grew up, his heart and mind never felt completely satisfied and at ease. He always felt lonely inside, even around the people who loved him. He saw how other people suffer from wanting, from feeling separate and lonely, from loss, from aging, from sickness, from death, and from fighting with each other about all kinds of things and ideas.
Siddhartha felt very sad for himself and everyone, and decided to leave being a prince to find a Way to live so that people could understand, love, and care for themselves and each other. For six years he searched everywhere — asking wise teachers, practicing austerities, nearly dying — until one morning, seated beneath a tree, he aroused a deep Faith that the Wisdom inside himself and the Wisdom that created and maintained the Whole Universe are One. Sitting in meditation with his eyes open, listening with sincerity and determination to that Vast Wisdom inside and outside himself, he saw the brilliance of the morning star — and his mind knew itself before thinking, his heart realized itself before wanting.
"How wonderful! Everything and Everyone is a Part of a Great Silence, a Vast Wisdom, an Unconditional Love, and a Fulfilling Peace — whether they Know it or Not."
— Shakyamuni Buddha, at the moment of his awakening
After his awakening, Shakyamuni Buddha taught the Wisdom that he embodied in Meditation and called it the Four Noble Truths:
Practice sitting down quietly once a day. Gently keep your back straight and your eyes partially opened. Pay attention to your breathing and the sensory experience of your whole body. Let go of your passing thoughts and let your whole heart, mind, and body finally begin to rest in a growing peace and compassion for yourself, others, and all of Life Just as It is.
Practice a constant openness to embody and live the truth before your prejudices, preferences, and opinions. Seek to understand yourself, others, and all of Life with compassion, honesty, integrity, courage, and patience.
Choose to think in ways that promote humanness, equality, gratitude, appreciation, compassion, and clarity inside yourself and with others.
Speak kindly, truthfully, and accurately by being honest — not calling names, not talking behind people's back, or saying things that make people feel unworthy or less than you.
Behave in a kind, safe, gentle and caring way for the mutual benefit of yourself and others.
Work for money in ways that help people without trying to take advantage of them or hurt them or their environment in any way.
Do everything that needs to be done in your life — whether you like it or not — with your whole heart, mind, and body one hundred percent. Be passionate about living and refining your whole life just as it is.
Moment by moment be aware of what you are doing, feeling, thinking, seeing, smelling, tasting, touching, and hearing.
Zazen meditation is not separate from the Eightfold Path — it is its living root and true template. Each of the eight steps finds its deepest expression in the body of seated meditation:
The Buddha's Eightfold Path is not a Buddhist path — it is a human path. Its eight dimensions of wisdoming practice apply equally to those with a deep spiritual and religious life practice, and to those who approach life from a secular and scientific perspective. You do not need to call yourself a Buddhist to benefit from these teachings. You only need to breathe, to practice, and to care — for yourself and for others.
Dr. Bonnici's counseling and teaching brings the Buddha's Eightfold Path into the living texture of your daily life and relationships.